A very good point you made there

I don't think anybody here is saying that everybody better find a way to be in some way 'untraditional', OR ELSE you are a TRAITOR to the feminist cause!

Whatever works, works. I would love to someday get to stay home. I'm not banking on it, though. Sure, maybe someday I'll fall madly in love with a corporate lawyer or investment banker or maybe just the heir to a gigantic fortune, and I'll get to make my career more of an occasional hobby and have as much family time as possible.

But in the meantime, or in the more likely scenario that my eventual partner is just a working stiff like me, I would like to be allowed to build a life without being forced to be miserable and/or ashamed.